A little creativity with toys, they say, can seriously pay off in the pleasure department. "Any sex toy can become a lesbian sex toy because pleasure products have no gender or sexual orientation," says Bloom. Sure, some queer folks and lesbians love these toys, but the options for products that take your O's to the next level go wayyy beyond these classics. Made of lightweight Aluminum and shaped for effortless penetration, these body safe anal toys are available in a variety of colors, shapes and sizes. Yet, for some reason, many pleasure-seekers mistakenly think that the category of lesbian sex toys is limited to strap-ons, double-ended dildos, and harnesses. That’s right, the wonderful world of sex toys is so expansive that it includes tentacle-shaped silicone-cocks!
If you have a sexual fantasy of being tied up and seduced by Ursula (no judgment!), for example, you could buy an octopus dildo (or eight) and really lean into the eight-legged thing. "They also allow you to expand your definition of sex beyond penis-in-vagina and invite a sense of play into your sex life."Īnother perk of sex toys? They can be used to bring a sexual fantasy to real life, they say. Let’s get one thing (ahem) straight: Plopping a pleasure product into your sex life can make things way hotter-and that’s true regardless of the gender, sex, orientation, or relationship status of the pleasure-seekers gettin’ busy.ĭesigned to create sensations at intensities, consistencies, speeds, and durations the human body is physically not capable of providing, sex toys help people experience new sensations, says queer sex educator and sex science researcher Eva Bloom creator of the F*ck the Patriarchy, F*ck Yourself self-pleasure course for non-men.